However, for other men, it merely opens up the door to what is possible: you realize that with great fundamentals and solid game you are able to get better women faster and more easily than most men; however, it is still work. And then you realize, if you had these powers you have developed through the learning of game and the applied use of that skill The most exciting students to teach in seduction are nearly always the ones who are accomplished in some other area of their lives already.
The talented artists, the successful entrepreneurs, the bodybuilders, the men with high-flying careers. These men always pick it up faster, and always get off to a fast start.
Great fundamentals afford you a good degree of value. And to get good at game, you must learn social skills , develop a sense of humor, and become adept at leading , gaining investment , and handling tricky situations. All that makes you valuable, and rare for it, especially at the higher levels. However, there are other kinds of value, too: expertise in other fields, authority, resources, physical attributes. Here are the 14 most common avenues I see men transmute their sex energy into, and a bit about how they do it.
Build your body. Every man who gets into bodybuilding does it, to some extent, to be more impressive to women. There can be other reasons, too; he may be looking to intimidate men and avoid unnecessary fights, or he may be looking for a way to feel powerful. Get good with girls. Learning how to pick up a girl is, believe it or not, a form of sexual transmutation. There is no immediate gratification in going out and practicing openers , banter , or deep diving ; you do it for the anticipated future returns you will get once you have improved enough with girls.
To get good with girls, you must first channel your sex energy into approaching success with them as a skill set. Make more money. Men pursue money, in all its forms, in large part to get more or more desirable women. They may have other motivations as well, such as to provide for their families, or to prove wrong someone who taunted them, but success with women is usually the heftiest part of it. Become an entrepreneur. Building a business is slavishly hard, requires stupidly long hours, an immense amount of risk, and frequently means you will be spending a long time, perhaps years, below the poverty line in pursuit of an eventual payout.
Awesome, so happy to help! He sets to work on closing down their unsuccessful retail front and moves them to one of his offices in the heart of the art and fashion district. The online business environment is highly competitive. What type of activities do Scouts undergo? So glad I found it yesterday LOL…. Once you host it on a popular platform like Amazon, you will have a potential source of income for as long as your book is online.
And why do you do this? Develop a sense of humor. Few men decide to develop a sense of humor because they desperately want to make their mothers laugh. Instead, they do it as a path to social status ; to possess social value ; and, ultimately, to gain more and hotter girls. Learn a foreign language. Simple as that. And the same goes for women.
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Learn how to dance. Talented dancers often clean up with women particularly if they become dance instructors, and couple their obvious talents with a position of authority. They do it to acquire mates. Master nightlife. Be an artist. Art is about passion.
And the need to express oneself is, first and foremost, the need to advertise. What are you advertising for? Why, for the same thing every animal that advertises in the animal kingdom advertises. For mates.
And women do love artists. Learn to fight. Turn into a connector. Why, opportunity, of course! And what is opportunity ultimately about? Chances to make more money and impress women ; chances to attend the best parties and meet the best women ; help in times of distress that might dampen your prospects with women. Turning into a connector is another form of sexual transmutation.
Explore your town. There are other motivations to explore, but this is almost certainly the chiefest.
Travel more. Why do men travel?
Live abroad. To make more money. And why do they care about making more money?
Men usually decide where they want to move overseas to in part or in whole based on what they know the women there to be like, or what they imagine them to be. All these wonderful skills, trades, and life directions, all motivated partially or completely by a desire for more, better, or additional women. It makes us humans seem too base; too close to our animal cousins. However, if you can make your peace with it, you can tap into a potent, almost limitless force for personal development, inventiveness, and creativity. One of the most interesting things to me is how little most men actually leverage the power their sexual transmutation has afforded them into actually prolific sexual results.
Some men take their new skills and abilities and reap an endless supply of willing women. Or they may even spend a lifetime transmuting sex energy into raw production, and ultimately never leverage their accomplishments and remain largely sexless. But many men use sex as a carrot to push them ever-onwards towards some imagined destination, often finding women along the way they decide they are happy with and who end up being the culmination of all that sexual transmutation, or possibly never letting themselves ever get the carrot so they never stop striving.
In that way, sex energy is a gift to the world; it rarely spills into uncontrolled hedonism, and instead manifests itself quite often, consciously or not, into a burning drive to make something of oneself, in any of a million different directions. Chase woke up one day in tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating.
After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends plus plenty of failures along the way , he launched this website. He will teach you everything he knows about girls in one single program in his One Date System. Skip to main content. However, the male sex drive is good for more than just sex.
Sexual Transmutation: How It Works Nikola Tesla stayed celibate his whole life out of fear that if he ever began to sleep with women, he would be lost to this, and his drive to build and invent and leave his gifts for mankind would dissipate. Sexual transmutation is, quite simply, channeling your sex drive into your ambitions. Well, just about anything. You might wonder how this ties into seduction. I suppose it does The talented artist can do well with women. So can the talented seducer.
But the talented seducer, who becomes a talented artist? Or the talented artist, who becomes a talented seducer? These latter two men are in a class above and beyond anything the former two can even grasp at. And women like all these things. Real or Imagined? Then there are the distinct individual yearnings on each tentacle, often in conflict amongst themselves. Or when you want so badly to be respected, but then you remember that a career that wins the undying respect of one segment of society will always receive shrugs from other segments and even contemptuous eye rolls from other segments still.
So yeah, your Yearning Octopus is complicated.